sounds more like a personality disorder involving impulse control, narcissism and so-on, or possibly a mental illness, substance abuse. vast majority of guys would not do what is claimed to have occurred here.
I'm curious to know what the bar did at the time it occurred, and presumably they have surveillance cameras.
All that, plus a hefty dose of entitlement. The belief that one is owed something.
Look into the "men's rights" writings on dating and how rape is a right and all that, and then try to tell me that it is all about - and only about - mental illness and not entitlement.
I've had the misfortune of seeing a little of that awful writing, and I suspect that much of the worst of it is not honest beliefs, but some mixture of pandering to a crazy audience (to sell a book or podcast or whatever), trolling for the sale of trolling, and false flag for political purposes.
There's also a lot of twisted entitlement and backwards ideas out there, too.
Maybe not the 'vast majority' but pretending this isn't an ongoing issue is foolish. Or do you really think girls give out fake phone numbers (under immense pressure) because we're mean, callous, petty bitches?
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What is wrong with some people?
I hope they find this scumbag!
entitlement
Acting entitled has been enabled.
No,
sounds more like a personality disorder involving impulse control, narcissism and so-on, or possibly a mental illness, substance abuse. vast majority of guys would not do what is claimed to have occurred here.
I'm curious to know what the bar did at the time it occurred, and presumably they have surveillance cameras.
Perhaps
All that, plus a hefty dose of entitlement. The belief that one is owed something.
Look into the "men's rights" writings on dating and how rape is a right and all that, and then try to tell me that it is all about - and only about - mental illness and not entitlement.
For what it's worth
I've had the misfortune of seeing a little of that awful writing, and I suspect that much of the worst of it is not honest beliefs, but some mixture of pandering to a crazy audience (to sell a book or podcast or whatever), trolling for the sale of trolling, and false flag for political purposes.
There's also a lot of twisted entitlement and backwards ideas out there, too.
Let me guess
You are either male and/or very, very sheltered.
Maybe not the 'vast majority'
Maybe not the 'vast majority' but pretending this isn't an ongoing issue is foolish. Or do you really think girls give out fake phone numbers (under immense pressure) because we're mean, callous, petty bitches?
Quality writing
"A man, who was reportedly sitting next to her at the bar on his laptop..."
Did they run out of chairs and barstools?
who, what,when, where, why
What bar?